.......Please stand up and introduce yourself to another person in the room. Preferably someone you do not know. I realize that may be a little hard but go with it anyway. Now say your name and where it is you come from. The other person please do the same. Here it is important to listen carefully because later on you will need this information. (Pause for this to take place).
By the way that was NOT building a network. Nor is introducing yourself to only people you think that may help you get what you want, be it a job or anything else. They will see right through you.
Let me say again building a network is not smoozing, giving out business cards at a cocktail party or chatting people up.
Ok . Why build a network? No body is managing your career. You are managing your own career. This means you need strategies to ensure you own well being.
There are only 3 skills although I prefer to call them rules to building your network. Each of them I will explain more fully later.
Build volume indiscriminately
Give Give Give
Stay in touch
Each of these points require you to be an ant. An ant as in Aesops fable of the Ant and the Grasshopper. Where the ant worked away each day preparing for the winter, but the grasshopper just lazed around. But when winter came the grasshopper hit upon “hard times”. So the lesson here is to build it now to use it later.
Part 2 will follow next blog and will explain points 1 - 3 in more detail